ΔE 12.6, fair: the same colour family, but not a straight swap. Sombre Grey is a little lighter, more saturated than Dark Elf Highlight.
Only where an exact match doesn’t matter, such as a new unit or a highlight. Fair match (ΔE 13). Sombre Grey is a little lighter, more saturated than Dark Elf Highlight.
The same difference applies the other way round: Dark Elf Highlight is a little darker, more muted.
ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.
See Dark Elf Highlight on the colour wheel See Sombre Grey on the colour wheel
All matches: Dark Elf Highlight equivalents · Sombre Grey equivalents