ΔE 26.0, loose: different enough that you should pick on purpose. Granite Stone is much more muted than Lucius Lilac.
Can I use Granite Stone instead of Lucius Lilac?
Not as a straight swap; see the closer alternatives below. Loose match (ΔE 26). Granite Stone is much more muted than Lucius Lilac.
Can I use Lucius Lilac instead of Granite Stone?
The same difference applies the other way round: Lucius Lilac is much more saturated.
ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.