ΔE 9.8, close: similar, with a visible difference side by side. Steel Grey is a little darker, more muted, warmer than Incubi Darkness.
Usually, if you are not matching paint already on the model. Close match (ΔE 10). Steel Grey is a little darker, more muted, warmer than Incubi Darkness.
The same difference applies the other way round: Incubi Darkness is a little lighter, more saturated, cooler.
ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.
See Incubi Darkness on the colour wheel See Steel Grey on the colour wheel
All matches: Incubi Darkness equivalents · Steel Grey equivalents