ΔE 23.6, loose: different enough that you should pick on purpose. Neo Pink is noticeably lighter, more muted, warmer than Dechala Lilac.
Not as a straight swap; see the closer alternatives below. Loose match (ΔE 24). Neo Pink is noticeably lighter, more muted, warmer than Dechala Lilac.
The same difference applies the other way round: Dechala Lilac is noticeably darker, more saturated, cooler.
ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.
See Dechala Lilac on the colour wheel See Neo Pink on the colour wheel
All matches: Dechala Lilac equivalents · Neo Pink equivalents