Abaddon Black vs Slate Grey

How close are they?

ΔE 21.6, loose: different enough that you should pick on purpose. Slate Grey is noticeably lighter, more saturated than Abaddon Black.

Can I use Slate Grey instead of Abaddon Black?

Not as a straight swap; see the closer alternatives below. Loose match (ΔE 22). Slate Grey is noticeably lighter, more saturated than Abaddon Black.

Can I use Abaddon Black instead of Slate Grey?

The same difference applies the other way round: Abaddon Black is noticeably darker, more muted.

ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.