ΔE 22.9, loose: different enough that you should pick on purpose. Grey Spell is noticeably darker, more muted, cooler than Pastel Lavender.
Not as a straight swap; see the closer alternatives below. Loose match (ΔE 23). Grey Spell is noticeably darker, more muted, cooler than Pastel Lavender.
The same difference applies the other way round: Pastel Lavender is noticeably lighter, more saturated, warmer.
ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.
See Pastel Lavender on the colour wheel See Grey Spell on the colour wheel
All matches: Pastel Lavender equivalents · Grey Spell equivalents