Hexed Violet vs Lucius Lilac

How close are they?

ΔE 16.8, loose: different enough that you should pick on purpose. Lucius Lilac is noticeably lighter, more muted than Hexed Violet.

Can I use Lucius Lilac instead of Hexed Violet?

Not as a straight swap; see the closer alternatives below. Loose match (ΔE 17). Lucius Lilac is noticeably lighter, more muted than Hexed Violet.

Can I use Hexed Violet instead of Lucius Lilac?

The same difference applies the other way round: Hexed Violet is noticeably darker, more saturated.

ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.