ΔE 9.8, close: similar, with a visible difference side by side. Gravestone Blue is a little darker, more saturated than Ash Grey.
Usually, if you are not matching paint already on the model. Close match (ΔE 10). Gravestone Blue is a little darker, more saturated than Ash Grey.
The same difference applies the other way round: Ash Grey is a little lighter, more muted.
ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.
See Ash Grey on the colour wheel See Gravestone Blue on the colour wheel
All matches: Ash Grey equivalents · Gravestone Blue equivalents