ΔE 19.4, loose: different enough that you should pick on purpose. Slaanesh Grey is a little lighter, much more muted than Blue Violet.
Not as a straight swap; see the closer alternatives below. Loose match (ΔE 19). Slaanesh Grey is a little lighter, much more muted than Blue Violet.
The same difference applies the other way round: Blue Violet is a little darker, much more saturated.
ΔE is the colour difference between our two swatch estimates: under about 6 is close, over about 15 is loose. Real paints also differ in finish, coverage and how they thin, so test before you commit.
See Blue Violet on the colour wheel See Slaanesh Grey on the colour wheel
All matches: Blue Violet equivalents · Slaanesh Grey equivalents